tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post5736029856406834107..comments2024-02-06T15:56:48.106+05:30Comments on Darlings Of Venus: Alright don't touch me..maithilihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13026338900563080890noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-77542733119466271742011-11-25T22:27:35.441+05:302011-11-25T22:27:35.441+05:30Maithili, the way you tackled one fellow was brave...Maithili, the way you tackled one fellow was brave. And you're right.. To fight back isn't always safe, we need to be absolutely sure about things man!Confused Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11497512142703084234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-42402258782037318232011-11-23T10:45:57.361+05:302011-11-23T10:45:57.361+05:30@ The updater: Yes it goes only to show that a gir...@ The updater: Yes it goes only to show that a girl should trust no one and specially in today's scenario where teachers have stooped to levels of molesting young students.. If this was in top Mumbai college, I dread to think what must be happening to lesser aware girls in smaller grades and smaller towns.. Despos are everywhere..<br /><br />@The life-a-holic: Awareness is the key..there is a very thin line between a mistake and purposeful touching.. Better to be precautious then be a victim..<br /><br />@Vinati: I m thankful to my parents who taught me early about these things.. I think in today's times girls and even boys should be taught these things the moment they enter schools and face life without their parents watching over them.. No age is too immature to not know danger.. <br />I m proud of the darlings who came up with their true stories and helped each other face their fears.. It is all of you who are courages to talk about it.maithilihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026338900563080890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-76812147139614901242011-11-23T10:39:30.482+05:302011-11-23T10:39:30.482+05:30@MSM : Thank you sis.. I just hope this month'...@MSM : Thank you sis.. I just hope this month's discussion spreads the message across to more and more girls.. <br /><br />@Red : That's the only time I felt proud of doing something to protect myself.. :) <br /><br />@Sunitha: thank you so much. It is easy to identify when such people try coming closer, but the threat is not just them..it is the decent looking class of men who turn out to be wilder wolves..maithilihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026338900563080890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-14161055281372535202011-11-23T10:35:58.888+05:302011-11-23T10:35:58.888+05:30@Roshan : It is sad that every woman has such a st...@Roshan : It is sad that every woman has such a story to tell.. The problem lies in upbringing I feel. If only all men were brought up to respect women and not treat them like sex toys!!! It is not just the road side types na, if a senior faculty member can do it then I feel there is something wrong with the larger psychology of men.. <br /><br />@Smita: yes if not for our parents protection we too would have faced horrid experiences at a age we dint know what was what.. Thank you darling. I wish I was more brave though..maithilihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026338900563080890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-16106646085099976712011-11-23T10:31:56.100+05:302011-11-23T10:31:56.100+05:30@meoww: Thank you girl.. I know being informed is ...@meoww: Thank you girl.. I know being informed is the only way out.. That is why I thought of this topic for discussion..so that what happened to few of us can be a warning for others..<br /><br />@viya: sadly every girl has to deal with such perverts.. Spray and cutters all can be useful when you know you will be alone or coming late but in situations like incident 3 it cant help na.. More than weapons, quick thinking is needed in such situations.maithilihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13026338900563080890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-63640394363345009192011-11-22T17:15:21.222+05:302011-11-22T17:15:21.222+05:30All I can say is that your parents did a right thi...All I can say is that your parents did a right thing in making you independent from a young age.<br /><br />And the thing about making others or siblings aware about such happenings is really thoughtful.<br /><br />There is a dark story in almost every woman's heart and I am glad that many are opening up to this platform.<br />All thanks to you dear. :)Vinatihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04722775946115523673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-18579881186129771692011-11-22T14:24:59.992+05:302011-11-22T14:24:59.992+05:30I am sure it was the timely advice that helped you...I am sure it was the timely advice that helped you because most of these issues are things that happen to a large number of girls. The problem is we don't really understand if it was intentional or by mistake!! And definitely Prevention is a lot better than regretting laterWriting Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03333799489599973639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-14221818757965217752011-11-22T14:01:08.755+05:302011-11-22T14:01:08.755+05:30You are awesome Maithili :)
And this happening in...You are awesome Maithili :) <br />And this happening in a top college, made me raise my eyebrows! But I guess there are despos all around. And you lady, have been brave to handle it :)<br />Kudos!Divyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09390492437891039784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-58724359994026249322011-11-22T11:22:08.773+05:302011-11-22T11:22:08.773+05:30Definitely know what you are talking about. Admire...Definitely know what you are talking about. Admire your quick reflexes and brave mentality to deal with these scum at the right time. :). You Rock..Sunitha Vijayanarayanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01456891222849014131noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-65446977604508279262011-11-22T11:13:42.617+05:302011-11-22T11:13:42.617+05:30Hey u really r brave little girl! The incident 4, ...Hey u really r brave little girl! The incident 4, u could sense the tharki afterall and u pushed him which made him stumble..That was goooood!<br />Respects!!Red Handedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17062645716811851771noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-66873565862765238252011-11-21T20:36:49.691+05:302011-11-21T20:36:49.691+05:30Maithili, this is so good...and absolutely true......Maithili, this is so good...and absolutely true...being cautious..and you had guts to stand up to those jerks! And you are right, unless you really can handle them, you should call it upon yourself...Loved it! :D You are such a brilliant person! :DWings of Harmonyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17555656671876023265noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-30478691775202918362011-11-21T18:42:04.581+05:302011-11-21T18:42:04.581+05:30The first para has happened with me even, I too us...The first para has happened with me even, I too used to get angry when denied to visit my friends like that, but now I know the reason of their denial. And You surely have been a brave girl maithili, The 4 incident says it all. That was indeed a very bold and courageous step of yours to do. I salute thy for that :)Smitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16386118079768296841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-14284979740833446842011-11-21T16:15:50.978+05:302011-11-21T16:15:50.978+05:30sad as it is to say, every woman I know personally...sad as it is to say, every woman I know personally has a similar experience to recount... I wish there were stricter laws or atleast better public participation in thrashing these kinda a**holes.Dr Roshan Radhakrishnanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17568986447487703775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-66682028959871039712011-11-21T16:14:49.664+05:302011-11-21T16:14:49.664+05:30omg! these are the kind of things which lead to m...omg! these are the kind of things which lead to more major abuse and rape and what-not... i'm glad you stood up for yourself.. <br />Pepper spray and the swiz knife and and the slide-out cutters are my few defense things..Viya ;)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03951329209795294315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-28293353852933580592011-11-21T16:00:10.761+05:302011-11-21T16:00:10.761+05:30Precautious* :P:PPrecautious* :P:Pvixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13116476445564423799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-77476426192582126762011-11-21T15:59:14.437+05:302011-11-21T15:59:14.437+05:30This comment has been removed by the author.vixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13116476445564423799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1985159231195373351.post-84938453605932365252011-11-21T15:58:51.081+05:302011-11-21T15:58:51.081+05:30no mathz...you have been brave enough to realise w...no mathz...you have been brave enough to realise when the danger was close..<br />and when you took the guts to stop that man from touching you..<br />its so true you know..<br />we need to be more precacious..<br />sooo glad you were fortunate enogh to stay away from such horrid experiences..<br />god bless you sweetie..:)<br /><br />cheers !!vixiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13116476445564423799noreply@blogger.com