November 2, 2011

End of one discussion, start of another..

Posted by maithili at 12:57 PM
                       I thank you all darlings for participating in the discussion last month. Your posts made interesting read and reasserted what every women feels..
                      The discussion got a good response and it showed in the number of followers who commented on the posts :) So well done all of you..
                      From the posts written by 8 authors on Darlings of Venus, we could draw a few conclusions which are:
1.. Losing virginity is STILL a very important event of a girl's life..
2.. The CHOICE of losing virginity largely depends on the FEAR OF OUTCOME..
3.. That every girl wants to lose her virginity to the man she truly loves.

It was interesting to read the views of our authors as well as the comments of our readers.. Thank you all for the active participation in the discussion..

One post that really made us think back on the decision was PeeVee's Losing it with Pride.. She indeed talked of things which would make us think and decide if the decision was right.. Would it be something you would take pride in telling your grandchildren? 

Paanipuri lover's post was straight in the face and the very first paragraph hit you ! 
 It all depends on my choice. If I feel like doing drugs, I will. If I feel like running nude on a beach, I will. But, by God's graciousness, I've been blessed with a brain that functions well, so I won't do such stupid silly things.

Mystical skeptical Me (MSM) presented us with a different view on the same topic.. 
" Chastity or Purity goes beyond the body or state of it" this line of hers indeed is very true.

So generally none of you thought virginity was lack of opportunity as such if you have found your love!! 

The discussion ended at the end of october and some of the authors didn't write for it. Some felt it was too bold and some didn't write due to lack of time.. Hoping you all write for the next discussion.. I would once again stress that the option of writing ANONYMOUS post is always open for each post, discussion and confession.. 

Also I would like to see the new members writing  for the discussion :) 

The next topic of discussion is: 

 Sexual abuse 

This topic is lot more sensitive than the previous one. Many of us have been fortunate enough to not ever get abused sexually at a young age. But to be true each one has experienced it.. in a very subtle form.. a bad touch, hovering hands, eve teasing, someone talking dirty to you.. It has all happened right?

To be more precise, we do not want rape cases and statistics here. We want to know YOUR story.. What YOU have experienced or been witness to. How did you escape being tormented? What effect did it have on you? Did you ever help someone undergoing this type of abuse? How can young girls avoid it ? 

Be true to yourself and us and talk it out here.. IT will help you heal.. If you have been really really fortunate to never ever have experienced any of the things talked above, then maybe you can write about statistics and all.. But be true.. 

I know talking out here again would be a problem for some so please please use the ANONYMOUS option given.. Your story might just help someone undergoing similar situation.. 

The discussion would go on all month.. This month you all have more time.. I m waiting for more posts :) 

Readers too can write a post and mail it to us at 


Freelancer on November 2, 2011 at 2:32 PM said...

maithili honey, you need to give these girls some light topics too... though sexual abuse is one topic everyone should share their views about

Viya ;) on November 2, 2011 at 2:56 PM said...


maithili on November 2, 2011 at 2:59 PM said...

@FL : Ah well I did think of something lighter, but then this month is probably the best for this topic! I will be busy after this month so next month onwards I will put up lighter topics :) This month most of us are little free due to holidays :)

Mystical Skeptical Me on November 2, 2011 at 6:27 PM said...

Well thought. Up for it. :)

PeeVee™ on November 2, 2011 at 11:58 PM said...

Cheers to all of us, looking forward to it...:)

Menachery on November 3, 2011 at 12:50 PM said...

hmmm thats worth a tot :)

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